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Thursday, September 25, 2008

If I could take tomorrow off work I'd

tell my husband to take off to so we can spend some quality time together...like stay in bed all day and just cuddle...or you know what (shhhhh). You see I love attention and most of all I love attention from my hubby. (A lot of it) It just seems he has been so busy lately...or he has a lot on his mind.

We used to go out to happy hour once a week and go out dancing or something at least twice a month...but lately we haven't been. My mom normally babysits but lately she has a social calendar so we really need to find a babysitter other than her...but that gets expensive...10 bucks an hour plus the money you spend going out.

I mentioned this to him yesterday and he said he used to look forward to going out (I was the one who wanted to stay in) dancing but lately it hasn't been on his mind.

It's his friends fault! He loves him more than me!!! (JK)
He recently found his best friend from the military a few months ago and you know what...he is consuming my husbands time. (I don't mind really I am very glad they are close again but it best not interupt my alone time). They talk several times throughout the day; they are working on a screen play together so they are constantly talking and here is Rachel waiting in the wings. I love that they have reconnected and I am flying his friend in for my hubby's 40th birthday next month; it was supposed to be a surprise but I blew it...I know I know I told you I like to talk and it just came out.

But I miss us going out; being alone, him groping me, dancing, having cocktails...we are crazy like that.

HELLO...I'm your sexy wife remember????

But I did just get a text from him...

"hey baby you want thighs in cream sauce tonight?"

Ok-is he talking about sex or dinner? I do love this chicken dish he cooks with wine, cream, mushrooms, peas etc...and he must be asking because he wants to take the chicken out before he leaves for work...so I reply:

"Yum My thighs"

and he wrote back "Mmmm"

I love my hubby, my best friend, my honey bunches of oats...I'm just overeacting because it's not all about me...but I'll be patient...it's going to be hard...but I'll be ok.


Thanks MamaKat

21 comments:

Tabi said...

Omg cracking up!! That is so funny! Maybe you need to set up a sitter in advance and steal you hubby away for the day or weekend or just the evening?!?!

Solei said...

LOL!!! Girl, you had me cracking up!!!
And you're so sweet, flying his friend in for his bday (even though he's stealing the spotlight from YOU). But he better not stay long, or he'll be getting bitchslapped, tehe!

I'll help you take him down, oh wait, he was in the military... yikes!
Well then, I'm sure you're waaaaaaaaay sexier than he is! ;D

THE Stephanie said...

OMG! Did you just call your husband "honey bunches of oats"??? I'm gonna die! I call Joey "honey bunches of oats" all the time!!

Were we separated at birth???

BTW, I call him that b/c he eats Honey Bunches of Oats cereal every nigh before he goes to bed. Crazy man...

Rachel said...

Tabi once this party is over I will definately steal him away...not to mention my dad and step mom, his best friend I am flying in and his other bestest friend who comes a few times a year is coming in from NJ and they are talking about guys night out...um hello I like guys night out can I come LOL

Solei not only was he in the military but he also was a former bounty hunter yikes...we are gonna need back up to take him down!!!

Steph-Johnny doesn't eat Honey Bunches of Oats...I just have always loved it and it fit perfectly...plus that lady who worked in the factory on the commericals always said "honey bunche of oats" I call him baby, sexy thang, honey bunchs of oats...and my lover boy...but yes we were separated at birth...and you got the better body :)

Maki said...

Aww you really love your HOney Bunches of Oats. It's so nice to hear people talk about their other half.

I'm in the same boat as you: My hubby and I used to go out and do all sorts of fun stuff together, but lately we're staying in. My hubby is 8 years older than me, so he wants to relax and avoid loud crowd these days where I still crave for the party scene..

It's important to have one-on-one time together. I strongly believe that.

...love Maegan said...

awwe! it sounds like you two have a really great relationship and great communication. I think that's most important ...other than a great sex life :) He'll come back around.

*sadly, we only have RB on the Xbox. damnit! I wanna ROCK!

Tiaras and Tantrums said...

that is cute that you text - my hubbie would be so aggravated with me if I did that interrupting his day! AND HE COOKS???? No fair! I'm with you on the babysitter thing - what is the point - $200 to just go and have some quiet time and not have to inhale food!

Melissa said...

You two might not make it out of bed for anything....not even dancing!! I do love going out dancing and having fun without the kids...but "alone time" is nice no matter what you do (some things being "more fun" than others)

Melissa said...

Oh my gosh!! That was funny! I guess you don't think so though! I totally understand what you mean! My husband and I don't get much alone time at all. It really sucks! I like attention too and I can be very high maintenance!! Thanks for the comment, I'm gonna try to get back in the swing of the blog thing!!

Rebeckah said...

Awwwwwwwwwww. I hope the chicken is yummy! AND, I hope you can cuddle. My husband really isn't a big cuddler, so I always feel like I have to force cuddling : ). Oh well. I force away!

merc3069 said...

:-) Hope you get some alone time.
Really liking the blog and having to control my jealousy--how DID you get spaces?!;-)

Solei said...

Awwww, Rachel... You are so frieking sweet I can't stand it!

I JUST *LUV* YOUR BLOG TOO!!!
and yes, I know caps means I'm screaming. I'm screaming out loud for the whole world to hear. I am professing my Blog Luv to you, lol.

Weeksie50 said...

Oh, you are so cracking me up.
I love the playful messages between you and your husby! That is just to cute.. and good for the both of you..

Megan said...

Ahhh!! "Is he talking about sex or dinner" LMAO. What is your mom doing with a social calendar?? ;) Hopefully you guys can get some alone time soon!!

Savvy Mode SG said...

for me, it's the boston red sox.... : (. my sister, the golf widow.

Krazy Armstrong K's! said...

awww hopefully he will turn around soon and notice the hottie running the house! :)

The Pink Potpourri said...

i can't tell you how many times i've tried to coax my hubby into skipping work so we could stay in bed all day ;) hasn't worked yet...

i LOVE date nights when we can get them. i think we're goin on one tonight! our community always has events goin on during the weekends so its pretty easy to find something to do.

Joey said...

holy crap! Steph calls me her "honey bunches of oats" too. That's is totally weird! I mean - who says that? really? I know you already know this cuz i saw Stephs comment, but it weird cuz she CRAVES attention too :) And I love to give it! (and we text like that too)

Los said...

Ya gotta keep these dates with ur hubby ... I'm telling you, it's important!

Megan said...

I don't see the comment button on your two newest blogs...I don't get it!!! What is happening!?!? :) That is too funny about Love, but hey...at least she didn't take a not-for-kids book...!! And I am sure that she made a fun story to go along with it and all the kids are totally in love with her. (as if they weren't already!) Have a great weekend!

LazyCrazyMama said...

:) awesome! texting is too fun :)